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How to Hire a Nanny - What to Expect

How to Hire a Nanny - What to Expect

A nanny can be a fantastic addition to your family, making it easier for new parents to return to work. While choosing and hiring a nanny may appear to be a challenging endeavor, it is not. Depending on your comfort level, time, and price, you can do much of the homework yourself or use an agency if you need help.

Choosing a Nanny vs Daycare

Child care decisions are highly personal; what works for your friend or sibling may not be the best means for you and your family. While certified daycare centers and in-home facilities are excellent choices, some parents prefer one-on-one attention. Many families choose to hire a nanny in addition to one-on-one care because the arrangement is more convenient. Nannies work on your schedule, so you don't have to drop off or pick up your child at a specific time, and you don't have to take time off work when your child is sick.

Having a nanny for your baby comes to your house also makes getting out of the house more manageable in the morning because you don't have to pack extra clothing, shoes, lunch, or snacks for daycare. Everything your baby requires is there at home. What are some potential drawbacks to consider? Only a person, as well as staff, may not be as dependable as a center-based daycare; if your nanny becomes ill or cannot work, you will have to stay at home or find alternative childcare. You may also need to acclimatize to having a non–family member in your house (though it's not unusual for a nanny to become a family member over time). Finally, nanny care is often the most expensive child care option, though prices vary based on where you reside.

Hiring a Nanny

Write a Work Description

Think about what's important to you and your family before you start looking for a nanny. Then, write down your requirements in the form of a job description. Include start and end times for the hours you expect your nanny to work. For example, what level of experience do you require from a caregiver? Are you looking for someone who is trained in newborn Cardiopulmonary Resuscitation (CPR)? Is it necessary for you to be able to communicate in a second language? Will your nanny be likely to empty the diaper genie or assist you with non-child-care activities like grocery shopping? Fix what you're looking for and make sure your requirements are appropriately stated.

Find Candidates

There are a variety of methods for finding possible nannies. Ask parents you see at the playground, in baby courses, or during group get-togethers for recommendations. Someone will often know of a nanny who has "aged out" of another household, which means the children are now old enough to be in school all day or are self-sufficient and don't require as much if any, supervision. Reach out to a nanny-placement facility for help finding the ideal candidate if you want to expand your pool of potential applicants or don't have time to chase down leads from friends and relatives. To obtain a sense of a local agency's placement style and process, call a few. Inquire about their decision-making process and how they arrive at their conclusions. It is also required if you think about your budget. Each organization has its policies, pricing structures, and replacement guarantee schedules.

If you wish to find a nanny on your own, Care, UrbanSitter, Nextdoor, and even parent groups on Facebook can be helpful. Some services allow you to apply various parameters (distance, willingness to care for pets) to find a nanny with the expertise or abilities you require, saving you time and effort. When it comes to recommendations from social media platforms, make sure you do much pre-screening before meeting up with anyone in person. It is also an admirable opportunity to remind people that meeting somebody they met on the internet in a public area before letting them into your home to meet your infant is a good idea.

Please Make an Appointment for an Interview

Schedule interviews with a few potential candidates once you've limited the list down to a few to get a better feel of their personalities, caring styles, and expectations. It would help if you asked various questions, including fundamental queries about their background, training, and education and more in-depth ones. Some questions to ask potential nannies to help you screen them: Why did you decide to work as a nanny? What do you need to do in the future? What degree of flexibility do you have in your schedule? In an emergency, what would you do? These questions will serve you an idea of the candidate's professional experience, personality, and dedication to the position. It would also aid if you also inquired about their parenting style (such as how they'll handle screen time or discipline) and whether they're willing to help with other domestic responsibilities, such as meal preparation or light cleaning. Check out our thorough list of questions to ask your nanny during the interview.

Call Their References

It is crucial in the nanny hiring process to ensure the candidates have expertise — and high evaluations from previous employers. Each of your candidates should provide you with the contact information for at least two past jobs. Make sure to ask specific questions when you call: "How long were they with your family, and why did they leave?" "Can you tell me what you liked and didn't like about the nanny?" "Were they trustworthy and truthful?" "Could you give me an example of how they handled a challenging circumstance successfully?" Take it as a sign that it's time to move on to the next person on your list if a previous employer doesn't answer your call or doesn't have anything to say.

Conduct a Complete Background Check

Before extending an offer, you should call the potential nanny's references and conduct a thorough background check — even if the agency or website where you found the nanny behaves one as well. You'll need the candidate's written consent to conduct a background check, as well as their full name, social security number, and driver's license. Inform them that you may use the information to make hiring decisions. Suppose the candidate is a non-citizen of the United States. In that case, you'll need their visa or work permit number as well as their passport number. Choose a background check business that follows the Fair Credit Reporting Act's guidelines but doesn't stop there. You can also look for sex offenders on the National Sex Offender Registry and Child Abuse and Neglect Records. It's also essential to do an international background check if your prospect is from another country. It should be a red signal if the nanny refuses to authorize a background check.

Make a Choice

So you're torn between two excellent candidates and don't know which one to choose? One of the benefits of using a placement agency is that the agent can gauge how the candidate feels about the family by acting as a go-between, ensuring that both parties are equally enthused about working together. And if you're still undecided about which candidate is best for your family, consider the following. Before making an offer, do a trial run with both for a few days or a week and see how you feel after witnessing them in action (for a price, of course).

Make the Preparations for Your Nanny's First Day

To avoid any potential miscommunications, sit down and examine your nanny contract before your new nanny starts. It should contain the salary, benefits, and job responsibilities, usage of household equipment, non-disclosure agreements, and termination terms.

Paying Your Nanny

However, how much you pay a nanny is determined by your budget and their compensation requirements, as well as considerations such as job responsibilities and the number of children you have. Over time, paid time off, taxes, whether or not transportation and health care will be covered, as well as bonuses and annual raises, should all be factored into the compensation calculation. After that, all you have to do is figure out your payroll withholdings and net pay.

Bottom of the Line

Employing a nanny for your baby can be a straightforward procedure if you do your homework. Remember to be honest with yourself and possible nannies about your family's needs. Establish a clear plan to communicate with candidates and verify references easily. You'll have a caregiver who is dedicated to your child's growth, education, and safety before long.